Author name: Kit Hayes

How letting go of one dream made space for what I actually wanted

Today is story time. Let’s take a journey back to 2018 – the year I launched the one and only instance of The School of Social Change – Weekend Retreats to Learn About the World’s Biggest Problems and Their Most Promising Solutions. The experience was amazing – I recruited professors, nonprofit leaders, movement builders, authors, and […]

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The move

The Desire Map

When my husband and I moved, I got to practice my favorite tool – The Desire Map. I created this about 10 years ago and have been using it religiously since. It’s wildly fun and straightforward, and acts like a shortcut to more fulfilling, yummy days. Start by thinking about a topic and mind map your desires

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5 hidden ways you self-sabotage and how to stop sent

Do you ever have moments where you just feel off—irritable, annoyed, impatient etc? Next time it happens, you might check if self-abandonment is the culprit. It’s a top way we self-sabotage without realizing it. Self-abandonment happens when we repeatedly override our needs. Every time we do, we drain our internal reserves, often leading to a blow-up

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I asked myself for guidance. She ghosted. (what to do when you’re stuck)

Today, we’re talking about one of my favorite naughty self-help tricks: Googling instead of only listening to the voices within. A lot of people will tell you all the answers are within. That’s true to an extent – you know what’s true for you, you know what your gut says. But, do you always have the most empowering reframes

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